Established 1869
Inquire About MembershipWelcome to the Thames Club, recognized as the oldest continuously operating social club in Connecticut and the third-oldest in New England. Founded in 1869 by two officers of the New London Northern Railroad who sought a comfortable social space after being stranded in a snowstorm, we stand as a living testament to the city's rich history. When you look at the vintage map that serves as our main photo, you can see State Street running right through the heart of the city's old town mill area.
Our current clubhouse, constructed in 1905 after our original 1838 building was lost to fire, has hosted prominent figures for over a century. This includes the famous actor James O'Neill, whose visits to the club are referenced in his son Eugene O'Neill's autobiographical play, Long Day's Journey into Night. Today, despite the inevitable ebbs and flows of economic cycles, the Thames Club has demonstrated remarkable resilience, adapting to the times while upholding its traditional values.
Private social clubs emerged centuries ago before the prevalence of hotels. Social club networks arranged for reciprocity with each other to assure professionals would be among people “of good standing” when traveling on business.
Evolving from our exclusive origins, the club proudly welcomed our first female members in 1992. Today, we invite a distinguished group of modern professionals to build lifelong friendships and broaden our knowledge of the community and the world.
Members enjoy anytime access to the Clubhouse and its unique historical features and amenities, including exclusive members-only spaces and our carefully preserved historic bowling lanes, which are among the city's unique gems from its rich history, spanning eras of burgeoning prosperity to enduring social vitality.
The Main Bar & Pub: Warm wood accents and a historic basement pub adorned with over 400 white tiles bearing members' silhouettes dating back to the 1800s create an inviting atmosphere rooted in over 150 years of service tradition.
The Dining Room: Our elegant space, perfect for everyday meals and special banquets, emphasizing fresh, local ingredients.
Billiards: Our game room features a billiard table for friendly competition.
Card & Hunt Rooms: An exclusive space for poker, chess, and dominoes.
Our vintage duckpin bowling alley, operational since around 1910, was custom-built by Electric Boat. Featuring authentic interwar-era Brunswick machinery, it is carefully preserved by our planned nonprofit foundation as one of the last of its kind in southeastern Connecticut.
As Connecticut's oldest private social club, our mission is to extend the unbroken chain of fellowship that reaches back to 1869. Under modern leadership, we are actively attracting younger professionals, military personnel, and community leaders with streamlined fees and vibrant cultural events.
Prospective members are considered through a selective process involving sponsorship by existing members, interviews, and final approval by the Board of Trustees. The acceptance process takes approximately two weeks.
We maintain relationships with approximately 75 prestigious clubs worldwide. Thames members enjoy the same privileges and access at these reciprocal clubs.
Cell Phones: Passive use is permitted. Calls must be taken outside or in private rooms.
Dress Code: “Business casual” (collared, tucked-in shirts and dress slacks for men; equivalent for women). Black-tie expected at formal events.
Unacceptable Attire: Athletic wear, sneakers, flip-flops, shorts, hats, torn jeans, and apparel with slogans.
Our elegant space, completed in 1905, hosts everything from weddings to corporate gatherings.
The club seamlessly blends historical elegance with a palpable sense of welcome. The best way to learn about us is to visit in person.
Staffed Hours:
Wed - Fri, 10:00 am - 3:00 pm
Member Access:
24 Hours / 7 Days a Week
Our not-for-profit foundation collects donations intended to support the maintenance of our historic 1905 clubhouse, preserving its structural integrity and classic architecture for the public view.