Thames Club

Established 1869

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Nested in History

Welcome to the Thames Club, recognized as the oldest continuously operating social club in Connecticut and the third-oldest in New England. Founded in 1869 by two officers of the New London Northern Railroad who sought a comfortable social space after being stranded in a snowstorm, we stand as a living testament to the city's rich history. When you look at the vintage map that serves as our main photo, you can see State Street running right through the heart of the city's old town mill area.


Our current clubhouse, constructed in 1905 after our original 1838 building was lost to fire, has hosted prominent figures for over a century. This includes the famous actor James O'Neill, whose visits to the club are referenced in his son Eugene O'Neill's autobiographical play, Long Day's Journey into Night. Today, despite the inevitable ebbs and flows of economic cycles, the Thames Club has demonstrated remarkable resilience, adapting to the times while upholding its traditional values.

Valuing Tradition

Private social clubs emerged centuries ago before the prevalence of hotels. Social club networks arranged for reciprocity with each other to assure professionals would be among people “of good standing” when traveling on business.


Evolving from our exclusive origins, the club proudly welcomed our first female members in 1992. Today, we invite a distinguished group of modern professionals to build lifelong friendships and broaden our knowledge of the community and the world.

Member Reflections

"The Thames Club is a living masterpiece. Stepping through the doors feels like entering a storied past, yet the community is as vibrant, forward-looking, and welcoming as modern New London itself."
"From the historic duckpin lanes to the sophisticated calm of the Library, every room tells a story. It remains the premier venue for legacy, fellowship, and leadership in Connecticut."
"A true sanctuary for professionals and friends alike. The seamless blend of 19th-century elegance with 21st-century networking makes the club an indispensable part of my life."

The Clubhouse & Amenities

Members enjoy anytime access to the Clubhouse and its unique historical features and amenities, including exclusive members-only spaces and our carefully preserved historic bowling lanes, which are among the city's unique gems from its rich history, spanning eras of burgeoning prosperity to enduring social vitality.

Classic Elegant Dining Room

Dining & Social

The Main Bar & Pub: Warm wood accents and a historic basement pub adorned with over 400 white tiles bearing members' silhouettes dating back to the 1800s create an inviting atmosphere rooted in over 150 years of service tradition.

The Dining Room: Our elegant space, perfect for everyday meals and special banquets, emphasizing fresh, local ingredients.

Classic Billiards Room

Leisure & Recreation

Billiards: Our game room features a billiard table for friendly competition.

Card & Hunt Rooms: An exclusive space for poker, chess, and dominoes.

Historic Bowling Lanes

Historic Bowling

Our vintage duckpin bowling alley, operational since around 1910, was custom-built by Electric Boat. Featuring authentic interwar-era Brunswick machinery, it is carefully preserved by our planned nonprofit foundation as one of the last of its kind in southeastern Connecticut.

Membership & Traditions

Building Relationships

As Connecticut's oldest private social club, our mission is to extend the unbroken chain of fellowship that reaches back to 1869. Under modern leadership, we are actively attracting younger professionals, military personnel, and community leaders with streamlined fees and vibrant cultural events.


Application Process

Prospective members are considered through a selective process involving sponsorship by existing members, interviews, and final approval by the Board of Trustees. The acceptance process takes approximately two weeks.


Reciprocal Clubs

We maintain relationships with approximately 75 prestigious clubs worldwide. Thames members enjoy the same privileges and access at these reciprocal clubs.

House Rules

Cell Phones: Passive use is permitted. Calls must be taken outside or in private rooms.


Dress Code: “Business casual” (collared, tucked-in shirts and dress slacks for men; equivalent for women). Black-tie expected at formal events.


Unacceptable Attire: Athletic wear, sneakers, flip-flops, shorts, hats, torn jeans, and apparel with slogans.

Reciprocal Club Directory

The Club (Birmingham, AL) (205) 323-5821 | www.theclubinc.org
University Club of Phoenix (AZ) (602) 254-5408 | www.universityclubphoenix.com
Marines Memorial Association (San Francisco, CA) (415) 673-6672 | www.marinesmemorial.org
The Balboa Bay Club (Newport Beach, CA) (949) 630-4382 | www.balboabayclub.com
University Club of San Francisco (CA) (415) 781-0900 | www.univclub.com
The Tower Club (Oxnard, CA) (805) 983-7777 | www.towercluboxnard.com
Santa Barbara Club (CA) (805) 965-6547 | www.santabarbaraclub.org
Essex Yacht Club (CT) (860) 767-8121 | www.essexyc.com
The Hartford Club (CT) (860) 522-1271 | www.hartfordclub.com
Elm City Club (New Haven, CT) (203) 624-3197 | www.graduateclub.com
Stonington Harbor Yacht Club (CT) (860) 535-0112 | www.shyc.us
Mory’s Association (New Haven, CT) (203) 562-3157 | www.morys1849.org
Epping-Forest Yacht Club (Jacksonville, FL) (904) 739-7200 | www.efyc.com
University Club of Tampa (FL) (813) 223-3737 | www.uclubtampa.com
Governors Club (Tallahassee, FL) (850) 224-0650 | www.govclub.com
Columbia Club (Indianapolis, IN) (317) 767-1361 | www.columbia-club.org
University Club of Boston (MA) (617) 266-5600 | www.uclub.org
Wamsutta Club (New Bedford, MA) (508) 997-7431 | www.wamsuttaclub.net
Downtown Association (New York, NY) (212) 422-1982 | www.thedta.com
Racquet Club of Philadelphia (PA) (215) 735-1525 | www.rcop.com
Army Navy Club (Washington, DC) (202) 628-8400 | www.armynavyclub.org
Public Schools Club Inc (Adelaide, Australia) (08) 8223-3213 | www.publicschoolsclub.com.au
The Hamilton Club (Ontario, Canada) (905) 522-4675 | www.thehamiltonclub.com
University Club of Montreal (Canada) +1 514-288-0201 | www.ucmontreal.ca
The National Club (Toronto, Canada) 416-364-3247 | www.thenationalclub.com
City University Club (London, England) 020 7863 6681 | www.cityuniversityclub.co.uk
Der Übersee-Club e.V. (Hamburg, Germany) 040-35 52 90-13 | www.ueberseeclub.de
Mercantile Athletic Club (Jakarta, Indonesia) 62-21-521-1320 | www.macjakarta.com

Events & Rentals

Club Happenings

  • Themed Events: From Kentucky Derby to New Year's Eve galas.
  • Music & Entertainment: ECSO String Quartet, Yale Wiffenpoofs, and Murder Mysteries.
  • Community: Local authors and lecturers on wide-ranging subjects.
  • Club Trips: Annual visits to the Hope Club, Harvard Club, and Down Town Association.

Discover the Possibilities

Our elegant space, completed in 1905, hosts everything from weddings to corporate gatherings.

  • Bridal Suite: Hunt Room and Library for VIP preparation.
  • Dining: Bespoke event meals or recommended elegant caterers.
  • Flexible Layouts: Tailored for networking or banquet dining.
  • Nearby: 20 minutes to Foxwoods, Mohegan Sun, and Mystic Seaport.

Visit Thames Club

The club seamlessly blends historical elegance with a palpable sense of welcome. The best way to learn about us is to visit in person.

Hours of Operation

Staffed Hours:
Wed - Fri, 10:00 am - 3:00 pm


Member Access:
24 Hours / 7 Days a Week

Thames Foundation

Our not-for-profit foundation collects donations intended to support the maintenance of our historic 1905 clubhouse, preserving its structural integrity and classic architecture for the public view.